Sex Magic + The Cosmic Egg...
I LOVE using The Cosmic Egg in many ways:
lube, relaxation, and sometimes I just put one in and listen. Just be with my pussy.
but another portal I choose to walk through, and I'd love to share with you, is using The Cosmic Egg as a basis for a sex magic ritual.
sex magic is basically using the life force energy, the energy of your beautiful creative sexual force, to clean and clear up your life, and bring in what you desire.
It can be witchy and magical, or just be regular, like making a wish list with your pussy :)
Totally up to you. Sex magic and all magic runs the spectrum, just as humans do.
The most important thing is that it feels authentic to YOU.
So get out your candles, crystals, and cloths, or just lie down and meditate.
Either way, its sex magic, and it can blast you into feeling your power and your capability as a magic, beautiful human with authentic sexual wholeness.
Ready to begin? Here's the most basic steps to using The Cosmic Egg for Sex Magic...
//1. CREATE SPACE//
just like in other rituals, some of the best magic is done while creating space. Light a special candle (or 7!), place a sacred cloth down, bring in some special stones, or get some pillows you love. Light a bundle of herbs or anoint yourself with a favorite scent. Put on your favorite jam or silky robe. Feel your power. The most important thing here is to make space by ENGAGING ALL YOUR SENSES. Drop into the moment.
//2. SET INTENTIONS//
this is where you get clear on what you want from this ritual. Do you want more happiness? A new material item? To call in a new friendship, partnership, or lover? More financial abundance? You can want any or all of these things, and you can let them all in. If you want to write it down on a piece of paper or journal and set it next to you feel free, but know the power is in really getting clear on what you want.
//3. INSERT A COSMIC EGG//FEEL YOUR DESIRES NOW//
take whatever version of your cosmic egg you have, insert it, and lie down. As it melts, try to feel inside you what it would feel like to have what you desire. Feel that new lover, a joyful postpartum, a different relationship with money, a real deal group of sisters. Whatever it is you want, feel how it would feel to have it. Embody it, imagine it, bring it into your body. Dream.
FEEL FREE TO STOP HERE, IF YOU WISH. THESE STEPS ARE A SPECTRUM. YOU ARE PERFECT!
THE FOLLOWING STEPS BUILD ENERGY AND POTENTIZE YOUR DESIRES...
if you want to start exploring yourself, and turning yourself on with your hands, a jade egg, a crystal wand or dildo, or any other toy you like, now is the time. Run your hands over your body, release what you need to, and consciously feel your body.
//5. CIRCULATE ENERGY WITH BREATH//
begin breathing into your pussy. visualize breathing in and out with your pussy, letting anything you need to, go. As you breathe, start to visualize and feel your pelvic floor... and bring your energy up to your womb, your belly, your heart, your throat, behind your eyes, and the top of your head. Visualize your breath as a liquid molten lava, a fierce wind, or an electrical buzz, whatever works for your body, and circulate it up and down from pelvic floor to top of head, and down again. Feel free to touch the different areas that you are breathing into. Do this for a while or be swift, up to you. Breathe deeply into each area and sound. To sound, exhale with any sound that feels good when you get to that area of your body. If you need to scream, moan, whatever it is. DO IT! Let your throat open.
The throat and your pussy are intimately connected. Let these sounds move you! This usually feels really really good.
//6. PLAY ON THE EDGE//
continue to self-pleasure and fill your body up with good feelings. touch yourself how YOU like it best. As you do so, bring yourself closer to orgasm, but back off just before you hit a point of no return. As you do this, remember your intentions if you like. Or just get wild and feel how big and bold and beautiful your sexual self is. Continue to edge and back off until you feel like your body is ready and hungry for an orgasm.
//7. ORGASMIC POWER//
If you are in a big state of turn-on, you can continue to feel yourself until climax, or keep your body in an expansive and ecstatic moment of full body sensation. No pressure. In these moments, if it feels right, you can imagine lava, a cosmic star explosion, or a big flow of water coming up out of your head and into the sky... feel yourself and your body. Just feel. Thats the most important part. Feel your body and your beautiful energy.
Afterwards, you can ground yourself with Rooted tincture, a pillow or blanket, the earth, a bath, or anything else that helps you feel. You are delicious and powerful.
This ritual looks different for every person, so focus on what makes YOU feel safe, bold, and playful. I'm continually blown away by the power this ritual has with The Cosmic Egg.
I feel the herbs and gemstones in The Cosmic Egg bring a deep earth element to this ritual that reminds me my desires are natural, beautiful, and full of the sexual power of the earth herself.
Enjoy feeling yourself, and this magic.
xo, lydia rose